Robb, the alleged narcissist, the alleged liar

Survivor Testimony: A Warning from Someone Who Trusted the Wrong Person

I want to share my story to help others avoid the same pain and manipulation I experienced. In July 2024, while grieving the loss of my beloved husband of 28 years, and my mother — I was deeply vulnerable. I met a man through an online dating platform who presented himself as kind, spiritual, understanding, and a PK (Preacher's Kid). Over the next nine months, he became a significant part of my life. But what started as companionship quickly turned into something darker.

This man was not who he claimed to be. I learned he was married — a fact he deliberately hid from me. I have text messages where he refers to his wife Krista as his ex, and this was before she filed for divorce in September 2024. What followed was a devastating pattern of gaslighting, manipulation, and emotional abuse. He knew I was grieving and struggling with complex trauma. He used that knowledge to control the narrative and isolate me further.

While visiting Canada with him, things escalated. I was encouraged to drink despite having a medical condition that makes alcohol affect me more intensely. I believe this was intentional. After consuming alcohol, I found myself in a situation I never consented to — a moment I later documented in photos, video, and with the help of a trusted nurse friend. There were injuries, there was pain, and there was fear. I saw a doctor immediately upon returning home. I FaceTimed my doctor the day after the incident, while I was at Robb's home near Lake Blaine in Kalispell, Montana. My phone was having trouble getting reception, and this video conference with my doctor too place on Robb's phone. I saved everything, as I was advised: evidence, clothing, messages, videos, and medical records.

Robb has tried to twist my grief into weakness, suggesting I was confusing past betrayal with the present. But I know what happened. I have lived with it every day since. I was taken advantage of in one of the most vulnerable periods of my life.

I am speaking out not for revenge, but for awareness. These experiences are not unique to me. There are individuals who prey on those who are grieving, isolated, or emotionally raw. They wear masks of faith, empathy, or love — and hide manipulation, control, and abuse behind them.

To anyone reading this who has experienced something similar: You are not alone. Your pain is valid. Trust your instincts. Document everything. Seek help. And know that healing is possible — even when justice is not immediate.

I will continue to speak the truth in safe, legal, and meaningful ways. My voice matters — and so does yours.

Any and all funds recovered from Civil Litigation will be donated to others who have been abused - emotionally, mentally, and sexually. Robb is a man who values his reputation and his money, and that seems to be all he will understand. Perhaps it will help him learn that hurting someone will negatively affect his reputation and his bank account(s).